As an African American woman with curves and hips and a pretty face. I completely agree with Felicia Czochohaski. People think that just because your pretty you have the best life and you shouldn't complain about anything, but you guys are completely wrong. Being pretty with curves or certain aspects has a few BAD benefits too. You can't wear what everyone else wears because your curves bulge a little but more and your boss can't focus on what your saying because he is to focused on your body and the point that your making completely goes in the trash. All because he's to busy fantasizing about what he wants to do to you rather than listening to your suggestion that might help improve your company or project.
Lets not forget the artist Alicia Keys who said she wore baggy jeans, and Jerseys because she got tired of being looked at as an object rather than a person. She got tired of being whistled at when she walked down the street. She wanted people to respect her as a person and an artist, I completely understand that? I go through the same similar situations, when I get a job I want to be hired for the fact that I am qualified and that I can do a good job rather than, being hired off of my looks. People also for get that we are humans to. Some people actually don't like a lot of attention, some people like to make real connections with other people These people are called "realist"
I'm actually glad I don't have the best looking body because I don't want the attention. When I actually find a mate I want someone to want me for me and not what I look like or how much they can fantasize about what they can do to me while were on a date. Some women still want to be respected and not whistled at when they walk down the street. So for everyone that is bashing Felicia for her article on her own blog can shove it and SHUT THE FUCK UP!!!!! No one knows the real struggle.
Lets not forget the artist Alicia Keys who said she wore baggy jeans, and Jerseys because she got tired of being looked at as an object rather than a person. She got tired of being whistled at when she walked down the street. She wanted people to respect her as a person and an artist, I completely understand that? I go through the same similar situations, when I get a job I want to be hired for the fact that I am qualified and that I can do a good job rather than, being hired off of my looks. People also for get that we are humans to. Some people actually don't like a lot of attention, some people like to make real connections with other people These people are called "realist"
I'm actually glad I don't have the best looking body because I don't want the attention. When I actually find a mate I want someone to want me for me and not what I look like or how much they can fantasize about what they can do to me while were on a date. Some women still want to be respected and not whistled at when they walk down the street. So for everyone that is bashing Felicia for her article on her own blog can shove it and SHUT THE FUCK UP!!!!! No one knows the real struggle.
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